Now... I'm not setting an unrealistic goal, I don't think. I know I will never be the girl on the left ever again. That was 23 year old crazy party girl when all I had time to do was go to work, go to the gym and party in the evening. Oh how my life has changed now :) And let me tell you, I EXTREMELY happy with my life now, so don't misunderstand me. The only think I'm not happy with, is my body... hey I'm a woman... :)
One thing I remember from my childhood is hearing my mom complain about her weight, expecially when we went shopping... I used to think, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT IF YOU'RE THAT UNHAPPY! And she finally did once we got older and she looks amazing :) I'm telling myself...
If you're not happy with something, CHANGE IT.
So my goal is, I need to lose around 25 more pounds.... I think I could be happy with myself then.
One thing I remember from my childhood is hearing my mom complain about her weight, expecially when we went shopping... I used to think, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT IF YOU'RE THAT UNHAPPY! And she finally did once we got older and she looks amazing :) I'm telling myself...
If you're not happy with something, CHANGE IT.
So my goal is, I need to lose around 25 more pounds.... I think I could be happy with myself then.
Update on the family:
I'm a stay at home mom which I've wanted since I birthed my beautiful baby boy. Of course I've had thoughts since I have been a mom about going back to work. NOT because I am tired of being a stay at home mom... only because I am so used to having my own money.... I know that is so selfish to say. But I'm so used to be very independent and for the first time in my life I have to rely on someone else.. my husband. He's doing an amazing job taking care of us, but it has been difficult from an independent woman stand point, that's for sure! I have had a couple interviews for jobs.... I mean if I were to get a really good deal, I know that I should work... so we can save more money and set up a better life for Maddox... BUT I dread the day I have to leave my son on the week days again and miss him while I work. Who knows, maybe I can find a happy medium and find a job that allows me to work from home a couple times during the week. SO CONFUSED on that front... On one hand I feel guilty for thinking about going back to work... am I being selfish? Or by NOT going back to work am I being selfish? I don't know...
I was actually sitting out on my deck the other evening just looking at the stars... just getting some air and enjoying one of the ncie evenings we've had.... yea I know, sounds corny, outside looking at the stars ahah. I had just gone outside and Maddox and Justin were snuggling in the bed with each other watching TV. I felt such joy. I felt sooo lucky.. because I rememer the days I thought I would NEVER have this. I remember the nights I cried, praying to god with all the promises of what I'd do if he'd give me what I want.
Now, I have it and I mope about my weight. Seems so small in the whole scheme of things. I know that at least.
All I know for sure in my life right now is, my husband and my son make me the happiest woman in the world... fat or skinny ;)